On the Immorality of Lying to Children About Their Origins

Document Type

Article

Publication Date

Fall 2011

Publication Title

Philosophy in the Contemporary World

Abstract

Using the moral work on trust and lying, I argue that allowing or encouraging children to believe you are their biological parent when you are not is a breach of trust in the parent-child relationship. While other approaches focus on specific harms or the rights of the child, I make a virtue theory argument based on our understanding of trust, lies, and the nature of the parent-child relationship. Drawing heavily on Nancy Potter's virtue theory of trustworthiness, I consider the nature of trust in the parent-child relationship and what this means for being a trustworthy parent.

DOI

10.5840/pcw201118213

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